LIFE LESSONS LEARNED FROM A BAD HAIRCUT

1. Effective communication is key.

Don't assume the other person, or in my case the hairdresser, will understand what you want just by using hand gestures and inadequate language. Do your homework, practice your language, learn how to ask for exactly what you want, and utilize visual aids. (I should have brought a picture of Rachel from F.R.I.E.N.D.S.)

2. Don't be afraid to speak up.

I saw him going for it - his shiny scissors in one hand, my hair in the other. If I had stopped him and had spoken up after the first chop, instead of sitting in my seat with my eyebrows raised, maybe just maybe, he wouldn't have continued layering my hair as if I was Cyndi!

3. Cry on someone's shoulder. Especially of those who know how to make you laugh.

Sitting in a puddle of tears alone is okay for a while but having a support system is better. I didn't "cry" over my haircut but I was hysterical as I approached my best friend. She held me as she asked, "Who ate your hair?" She then reassured me that she could fix it and reminded me of all her tools at home. She made fun of me, of course, but it made me laugh which made the problem insignificant.

4. Focus on the positive.

It's easy to dramatize a small problem. When something goes wrong, take a step back and look at the big picture. It will remind you all the things that are going right which normally outweigh the wrongs. So, sure my hair is a goner, BUT I recently got an 86 on my Italian quiz! (Which is better than my previous 84) Yay me!

5. Learn to slay with what you got.

We all know the quote, "When life gives you lemons, make lemonade," don't we? Instead of being sorry for what you don't have, embrace what you do - maybe I'll start channeling my inner Cyndi with all these uneven layers. And don't forget to be resourceful. (Wigs, weaves and hats are all good options.) With a little sugar and a dose of confidence, the possibilities of what you can do with your lemons are endless.

As for me, this lemony haircut inspired a blog post.

Till next time,

May

JUNO? KNOCK, KNOCK, KNOCK.

Do you wanna build a snowmannn? 

Okay, bear with me here. This Frozen song was stuck in my head all day as I lounged around the house and watched Netflix. (13 going on 30 for the 15th time and F.R.I.E.N.D.S re-runs to be specific.) My internship and class had been cancelled in case of a blizzard today. But the much anticipated winter storm of 2015 turned out to be a minor, manageable one. The weather people can't always be right. In fact, I'm happy today turned out the way it did. Even though winter isn't my forte, I liked waking up to the sound of shoveling snow on a quite street. I also saw many people building snowmen and taking pictures with their families which brought smiles to my face. New York was full of winter spirit -especially since many of us got a day off from school and work!

Check out a few pictures of New York snowmen that I collected from my friends and from Instagram. I promise they will put you in a winter spirit too!

Happy commuting tomorrow guys! 

XO,

May

WHAT WAS NEW AT NYFW

There were beautiful clothes, fabulous celebs, wonderful inspirations and continuation of past seasons' trends at NYFW this season.  What caught my eyes were the shows that put NEW in New York Fashion Week. Have a look. 

Xx,

May

8 TRENDS FROM NYFW S/S 2015 RUNWAYS

1. Thigh-Slit Dresses

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2. Crisp Whites

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3. Knee-Grazing Hemlines

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4. Matching Separates

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5. Exaggerated Short-Sleeves

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6. 3D Appliqués

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7. Sheer Skirt Extensions

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8. Gingham Styles

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Images collected from Style.com, Compiled by May Hein

Which trend is your favorite? And, let me know if you spotted any others this season. London's next!

Xx,

May

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